I wish on the whole that she hadn't told me that, it was very damaging, but it was also good to find out in away (even though it hurt so much), because it showed me how truly unprepared/unable she was to deal with transference. So it made leaving her easier in away. But I don't think that anyone should ever be told that, it I had been in a more unstable place I hate to think how I might have reacted.