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itsme45....It will take awhile to get this person out of you head. When it comes right down to it...it really does not matter why he turned away.
He was your escape....but you have to be so careful - If there was some good...
take that and leave the rest behind. Relying only on this person for worth and pleasure without ever having him in person is not a good idea unless you really could be "just friends".
A healthy support group or a therapist is a much better way to learn how to get yourself in a better place.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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