GenCat, I read many of your old posts about this T. I have been through something similar with an unethical T. I'll think of you tomorrow!

Please remember when she gives you excuses for her behavior that, even in a small town, she as T should have only your best interest at heart. She claims to be an encourager and not a hand holder....yet she escorts you to these social functions. She also broke HIPPA and ethics code by revealing private information to the church director. She's not making sense.

I know you have a great deal of positive feelings for her. It will be quite painful for you to leave her. I understand that, I do. But not only is she not helping you with your initial problems, she has caused you more problems by clouding and tainting the therapeutic relationship.

I read you live in a small community where contact might happen - but it's one thing to run into your T at a dance and entirely something else for her to drive you there, sit next to you, and privately touch you...or look down your blouse.

What are her credentials? Is she a social worker, marriage and family counselor, a psychologist?

Just know you are not alone. We are all here for you.

Pre