My dad was only a bill payer. Good thing but guys need some kind of bonding. He raced go carts until I was 7 and we went with him. After that nothing. Never played anything with us like sports and did not want us to play so we didn't want us to get hurt. We never did nothing as a family. No fishing (which I love), no games, no movies, no bowling, no vacations. Nothing until we were out of school.

Probably why my oldest brother has very little to do with him now. My other brother does call often. I'm stuck with him with my mi. How bad is that. Now he was/is a good man, but how would you feel to be stuck for the moment with someone who caused so much pain when I was growing up.