I've been thinking that way. I even told my t that he's hiding behind boundaries and use them not to tell me the truth.
When he said- I can't do this because of boundaries- I said that he just doesn't want to do this and he uses boundaries to say he can't not to say he doesn't want. he knows for sure I always think so and sometimes he asks me why i can't believe him.
But he crossed some boundaries (his boundaries are just too strict and other ts think it's not boundary crossing) because of me. I always said- you love your boundaries more then me.
Now I think that maybe there in the world are some crazy people who do/don't do something because of ethics and rules breakers like me just can't understand those people.
My t said that he wouldn't have sex to any of his patients even if he wanted to because of ethics.