I've been there too JaneC. I have to work at keeping my life very calm just to cope day to day. My husband has a bit of temper and when he throws a hissy fit, it really triggers me because I lived with so much anger when I was little. That's a challenge right now. I can't work anymore because the stress would put me over the edge. Some people bug me too. I had lunch with a woman I met at the new church I'm going to and she was a load mouth who didn't give a rat's behind about my opinion on anything. That was familiar territory from my youth and I haven't been to church since. The list can go on, but you get my point. You're not alone.