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No, I do not think it is weird...it does feel odd especially at first...and he is the first really kind "man" who is trustworthy...Has taken him a long time to prove to me that he definitely does care and regards me well..
The nice part is that T's do care, but don't have some of the emotional entanglement and history like friends and family. They can see the bigger picture and as they get to know you, more quickly respond to why you are triggered or sad or upset. Thus know the right things to say to make you feel more calmed and reinforced and cared for and about. They see the good in us when we cannot and family sees the negative. They have better perspective, I guess???
Probably not saying this well at all, but yes, it does feel foreign as not used to having anyone give a flip. But it does not feel fake.
WB
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Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your heart.
Who looks outside, Dreams...
Who looks inside, Awakens...
- Carl Jung
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