Lost my Dad in 2008 and in honesty I get more sad during significant days like his birthday and the day he died.

Days like Fathers Day are more of an annoyance as though the recipitants appreciate it... I always forget till the last bloody moment and then either have to send a belated card or send an apologetic text.

Made the rooky error of sending a fathers day card to my step dad one year and my mum gets stroppy if I forget.