PDoc said to me, in response to someone jumping to conclusions about something, and my resulting guilt about it: "It's like when you have sex on the third date and then they assume you're in a relationship with them. You never specifically said you wanted to be in a relationship with them, but they just assume it". It was funny and I wasn't offended, he's just usually more guarded about himself. He knew that I knew he was dating (on a dating site) so I think that connection we had prompted his choice of an example. If it were a different female patient though, they might of thought he was a huge *****!