<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS )))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font>

For clarification................. I talk to my T about every aspect of sex - the good and bad parts of sex - and I went thru 11 years of unspeakable sexual abuse & torture, so when I found that I was having a hard time telling my T about the bad parts I just drew a picture or wrote it down on paper for her to read, then we would talk about it.

IMO... We must talk about it in order to heal from it - for it is thru the talking that we finally release.

Please know that I here if you need someone to talk to..... and I promise not to judge nor to condemn.