I remember when I first came to PC, I didn't feel like I fit in anywhere either. It was my first time posting on a forum and I had no clue what to expect or how to do things.

What I found out was that it does take time. Some folks have issues with trust. Some folks have issues with connecting to others or maybe they just don't always understand how we feel.

I also found out that the more I put myself out there in supporting other members, the more I got in return support. So, I supported others as I could, some days were better than others, but before I knew it, I made connections and built relationships. Some of those members I had relationships with have left PC and moved on. Some are still here. It's very similar to real life at times.

So please, give yourself some time, give others time to get to know you better. Maybe you can find a forum that feels the most comfortable to you and you end up hanging out more in that forum than in others. That's okay, and it's all good.

You are a part of the Psych Central family. You matter and you do fit in!