I like Agony's post ...

I would suggest people also read posts properly to ensure that they understand the intent behind them before they let rip in ways that do not dignify them

I also, like agony, value a bit of free and intelligent speech.

And not bishing and moaning - or attacking someone via PM.

There is always a nice way to say something or a direct way that doesn't dramatize things in an uncivilized manner. Receiving PMs from people who don't even bother to read a post correctly is not fun.

Understand everyone here is going through a hard time and perhaps we should all have a bit more respect (myself included).

Just my ten cents :>