Thanks Teacake. I've seen you mention that elsewhere and have been looking for more info on Google. I'm interested in trying it. It's worth a try if it'll help...

Thanks also Skywhite and Open Eyes. About my husband, I don't know. He's always been kind of hardened in that way. I sometimes wonder if anything ever bothers him at all. Maybe it does somehow. I just get platitudes from my family, though my mom knows of someone that works at a therapy place and is going to talk to him about me when she can. She's recovering from surgery right now but hope to soon. I'm hoping so much something will work out. I'd love help if I could get it, and I do think talking to someone who would actually listen to me would help a whole lot. Just so many thoughts and feelings I have. Yes, thankfully he wasn't in the car when it happened. I can't imagine. I have no idea if it was in the process of starting when he was driving home or if it began after he turned the car off. When we first saw it it hadn't yet spread to the garage and was just coming up a bit from under the hood, but it quickly grew. He used the towel I had on my head because I had just washed my hair to try to beat it out, but nothing seemed to stop it. We've heard maybe there was a hole in the fuel line or something so gas might've been coming out and feeding it. The car was a total loss, too. Thanks for the suggestions, and I'm sorry about all you went through, too, Open Eyes. I can't imagine having to deal with that alone while your husband was so depressed. I get nervous just when mine oversleeps!! That had to be so hard. I'm sure it was hard having to sell one of your horses, too. Yeah, PC has been a great help. I finally feel that I'm not alone in my struggles by seeing what other people are going through, too. It feels that in a way we're all in this together.