How do you tell your boyfriend he stinks? My boyfriend doesn't bathe very often, about once a week, and he missed his last shower because he was late for church! I let him have the bed for the night (our bed is lumpy and has a spring sticking up on the side I used to sleep on, so if I'm not using it overnight, I let him have it--I can't sleep on the couch, so I take it if I'm sleeping during the night), but I really dread going in there to get sleep in a little while, after he gets up, because I have to lay in the spot he slept, sweated and smelled up. I just took a shower a few hours ago, so that makes it even worse, because I like to feel and smell fresh and clean. There's also my OCD issues, but I'm posting here just to ask how to bring it up without hurting or offending him. He gets defensive sometimes, or doesn't like me saying certain things to him (although he can say certain things to me that I don't like, but whatever). Any advice?