How often were you emailing/texting her? Did she ask you to stop? Mine allows me to email or text whenever and does not charge. I asked for clarity around it all and he said he did not feel it was a concern with me. But I don't email/text more than 1x/mo at this point. He said he feels it's part of the relationship/job or whatever he called it. He said if it became a concern, he'd let me know or something like that....I think all Ts are different on this. I wouldn't feel comfortable paying for emails/texts. I also believe it's part of the process but I understand that Ts have a right to their boundaries. That said, I think they should be very clear with clients on what those boundaries are and that part is NOT the client's responsibility.