Recently I have not e-mailed as much as I had in past months (7 e-mails in April, 9 in May, more now, in June, but they were in response to her telling me via e-mail that my insurance wouldn't pay anymore so we were done unless I had cash).

Yes, initially she said I could text and email, and we did almost daily, and then she changed her mind and said "stop bugging me", you can only text for scheduling, you can only send three emails a week and no reply.

My problem with this is I'm trying to get used to not needing her btwn sessions and not communicating digitally, but then SHE will e-mail me or text ME and I dont want to talk that way at all if its such a problem for her.

We did talk about me paying for the emails, but she never emails with clients (except me) so doesnt have a fee for it, so she told me to think about what I want from email contact and what I would be willing to pay for it, and we can discuss it next session.

But I dont know.

If I pay, I want a response-not 1-3 lines but a real response.

As for sent e-mails- I'm not sure bc my emails are typically very short, just a few lines. Sometimes they're several paragraphs. Should they be charged the same to be read regardless of length or, or a certain fee based on length?