It's hard to talk face to face. ...but you have a great start! You wrote her about some of your questions and concerns. At least you know that *she* knows. This will allow you to open a dialogue about your questions about trust and impropriety.

Maybe re-read some of the posts on your previous thread and make notes of the concerning issues. Take your notes with you to next session and read some of them.

Therapy should be a safe place to discuss your concerns. It won't be easy. But you deserve better than you are getting.

Don't leave it up to her to bring up boundaries...you are the employer...you are paying her for a service...that, to me, seems pretty crappy. You can bring up boundaries. If she has been ethical...or even if she has made a mistake or two, she should be willing to discuss your feelings about how she is handling therapy.

Please do not think that you are the problem. I certainly don't believe you are.

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