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Originally Posted by Wysteria
Dear Kororain,
Just my feelings, but I think the last thing I would want from a T is more shame. I have enough of my own. It is not for them to judge me. And shame is the WORST and most INEFFICIENT motivator there is, although many try it. I think you should be validated for doing what you had to do to get through a time when life and emotions were too big to handle. I'm glad you are not sorry for doing what you had to do to survive at the time. I hope sometime you will find a T or someone else that helps you get past it and grow and learn without judgment. Unburdening your soul is not her job..but bringing compassion and helping you to become stronger, forgiving, content, able to form good attachments and make better decisions in the future is.
I'm sorry...guess this just made me angry for you..
Forgive me if I have offended.
WB
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You never offend me, hon.
It could totally all be in my head, but I just think that's what she thinks based on my perception of her moral compass. It just differs from mine.