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Originally Posted by precaryous
Is the goal, then, disclosing, depending, feeling, learning from our T's for a time, so we can later hold them in our hearts and minds after we part? In the process we may also learn to hold ourselves?
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yes, exactly. only those of us with bpd have a lot of trouble internalizing an nurturer introject...its easier to internalize the perpetrator and tell ourselves bad things.