I'm sorry HazelGirl.
I don't think you are angry and hurt for no reason.. you have probably brought up things that had been resting for long, lately, and it feels like everything has just happened, again, whatever it is.
I found out that I am feeling *worse* than before but I like to think it is a good sign of healing wounds in the best way, reopen them, get the right medication and let them heal the right way after processing things. Don't know if it makes any sense. Unfortunately it takes much longer than just ignoring them and probably the thing to do is to acknowledge the pain and anguish. But this is a transition phase..

How are you doing at your new place by the way? Do you keep a diary or do you think there's something that might help you vent or take out your feelings without inhibition?