Congratulations on your sobriety.
I see many words of judgment. Drinking and smoking is his choice. Sobriety is now your choice.
It stinks that he used a mocking choice of words about your sobriety.
You listed the violence wheel, are you in physical danger? Have you expressed how you won't accept a mocking tone? Does he name call you?
You are changing, is there a realization you two have nothing in common?

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