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Originally Posted by Trippin2.0
Change comes with maturity, our perceptions, and even our tastes change over time.
So yes it is entirely possible to fall inlove with someone you wouldn't have looked at twice in the past.
But no, it can't be forced. It evolves as your personality does.
All you can do is work towards growing into the person you'd like to become, keeping an open mind, and the rest will follow in sweet succession.
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Thanks, I do believe that too. But sometimes it's quite hard though.
To me the mind and the heart always were two separate things. Although lately I start to realize more and more that one does really influence the other though. But yes, it takes time.
And I'm very convinced to escape the codependent-narcissist dynamic.