My husband told me today that I have scarred him for life and he doesn't think he will ever recover from what he thinks I've put him through.

I have BPD so life with me can be pretty tough at times. He said I drain him every day Even though he said all that stuff, he said he still loves me and wants to be with me. Well I don't know how to take it all. I don't want to be with someone if I am damaging them We have been together 15 years and we both still love each other very much but at the same time, it's a very unhealthy relationship.

I don't know what to do after hearing him say those things.

Maybe couples therapy?