I just think she thinks EMDR might help you feel better sooner, not that she is giving up on you. I think you can go as fast/slow as you want but if my T knew a method that might help me, I think she'd be negligent for not suggesting it? Yes, you said earlier you did not want to try it but maybe at some point you will. I know my T suggested maybe I wanted to try meds a couple times during my therapy even though I never did. It's just another tool, not a comment on how well you are doing or how she feels about helping you, etc.