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Old Jun 18, 2014, 10:02 AM
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Anyone that tells another peron that they've scarred them for life needs to take a step back and stop being selfish and self-centered. The statement alone assumes one person in a relationship is the messed up one and tends to imply the other is a victim of sorts. I'm sorry but no matter how difficult you can be with your bpd, I highly doubt you've traumatized him to the point of scarring him for life. And even at most, if you have, fact is, he's probably scarred you in ways too. Think about it, we all affect each other negatively and positively to some degree, sometimes to extreme degrees and especially those who are with us long term or are our life partners. Just a fact of life. Tell him to get over his whiny self and man up. You've been through a lot too. Ok not in those words but truly you need to just stand up for yourself a bit here.
Thanks for this!
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