Pinksoil. I think that it is wonderful that you were able to express anger with your T. I can't even express anger about something or someone else with my T. I see you said that he tries to provoke you - maybe that is what he wants. I am terrified of anger. I imagine one day mine will surface. I think that it is wonderful that you are able to feel and express emotions about your T with your T. I can not even share emotions that I feel about others with my T. Although it sucks I think it might be a good thing.