I asked my husband to move out at the end of March. I felt sad reading what you wrote.

We have many issues (e.g., he disappears and won't talk to me for days; and he abuses meth and alcohol) and one of them is his use of pornography. He never admitted it; I always found it through snooping. On his phone, on his laptop, on his iPad, on our cable bill. I can relate to what you said about being willing to work through the pornography use, if only he would be honest.

I had an appointment with a divorce attorney for the beginning of March, but I cancelled it because I didn't really want a divorce. I made another appointment for June 17, but I cancelled it on June 13.

As sad as it is, it is comforting to read a post I can really relate to.