I second this more than I can say. It's amazing how they'll sit there and tell you as little as possible, even as you consistently and constantly ask to learn more about what's going on. This happened to me. Total red flag and as much as it bothered me I told myself to ignore it. So I went along with it....meaning what? That I played a part too. Now my advice would also be, if you're reading this and find this scenario happening to you, recognize what your choices are and act accordingly. Will only benefit you later.