Divorce is a tough decision, especially with children involved. Irreconcilable differences, to me, symbolizes lack of functionality in the home. If one parent disregards the other parent continually, the older the children become, the more insidious everything becomes. Children mirror behavior. And will mirror the disrespectful behavior and the older they get, harder to break them of it. Watching a friend, colleague experiencing the painful repercussions after the end of a 20year marriage. She's desperately saddened, as her kids aren't kindly towards her.
Within the year, her ex, already with new live in. Hmmm.
Waiting too long, to know, can be too long to decide.
Mine was more than verbal, it was physically abusive. My children, young enough to see me and him as separate entities.
Good luck on deciding.

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