I have been with my husband for almost 12 years now and at the time when we were married I did not know I was Bipolar, he knew about the OCD. We have been thru a lot because he has Crohns disease. I always feel like I am being selfish where mine is day to day and his only flares up time to time. I know he loves me but I go thru times where I feel like it might be too much for him to handle. My only advice is to not leave him in the dark about the major issues, you have to communicate, because if he loves you he will stay by your side.