Hello dilemma-girl. I totally agree with the previous posts. Getting separated from him is a top priority. I agree that he's a leech who's feeding off you, and I'm very sorry if I'm being harsh. Are your parents okay with this? Do they care more about honor than you? I'm not thinking that your parents hate you, but if they're pushing this relationship even if they know what's going on, they're enablers. That's very unhealthy! Neither is it honorable. I think they already lost the honor of keeping their daughter safe if they know about how this relationship is. Sadly, only you will end this relationship. I recommend to get help wherever you can. If you're living on your own, this relationship will be much easier to break.