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Originally Posted by HazelGirl
It sounds like you don't have motivation to change. What do you want out of life? How can you reach those goals?
This is all about mindset (it sounds like you already know that). You have to choose to change, and it's very hard at your age. You have been doing things this way your whole life, and things won't ever change unless you CHOOSE to change them. You're in control of your life and your destiny. It's time to start living like it.
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Thanks, Hazel. I do have motivation to change. My parents won't be around forever and I can't support myself the way I am now. BUT...I'm a terrible procrastinator.
I don't know what I want out of life. I'm not sure I ever did know. I went to college because I'm smart and because that's what everyone expected me to do. I can't remember ever really wanting to design or engineer something, I just went to school because
I could understand those types of things. Then when I graduated I thought "OK, I'm finished! Now give me a nice fun job where every day isn't a drag
. Oh, and a nice fat paycheck so I can buy a home theater system and blast my favorite action movies!" But I never found anyone to share those movies with. And every day was a drag. So Bud Light became my girlfriend and well...you know the rest.