Thank you all of you.

I have taken all what you have said and it has really made me think. We have both hurt each other in many ways..and I do think the way forward is therapy for us both as individuals and as a couple. This is something I am going to talk to him about once the dust settles.

I love him with all my heart and the last thing I want to do is hurt him. I love him and want him to be happy so will do whatever that takes.

I listened to what he had to say and I can see how living with me has taken its toll on him. I am very high maintenance and really need to learn to deal with a lot of stuff internally as I drain all his resources which leaves him unable to deal with his own 'stuff'.

I am sure we have the love and will to get through this and make it better for ourselves.

Thanks again