I've learned that I have to have a female T. Last male T I had tried to comfort me while I was talking about past trauma and it didn't end well. Fortunately he didn't press any charges and admitted that he was mainly at fault since he had misread the situation and tried to hug me. I'm not nearly as confrontational or distrustful with a female T. I will say how can you know which you like better unless you try both?
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