Hello, LaSol. You have to live your life. You get to define who you are. If you are satisfied with your life, the opinions of others who disagree with the life you have chosen have little or no significance.

If you are being treated for avoidant personality disorder, please share your thoughts with the therapist. Therapy could change what you might want in your life.

This article will give you something to think about:

Dimensions of Wellness