That's a good point. My T is always on time. Always. He has gone over a few times with me, but never much more than 10 minutes.
My H just started with a T and his T was like 20 minutes late. That's foreign to me but then he went late with my H......idk. It could be a boundary issue.
When I first started with my T, one time he went like 12 minutes over before saying we have to stop. Um...I couldn't see the clock so I had no idea we were over. I apologized and then in a following session requested it not go over like that again. I was super super uptight about it because I don't like crossing others boundaries and felt responsible for it.
Interestingly enough, my H goes in there for his first session with a new T and seems almost happy his session went over, although he described ending as being "kicked out" lol. And then proceeds to ask for two sessions a week, which I can't even imagine doing.
Funny how different we can all be.
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