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Originally Posted by Breezy~Day
Hello dilemma-girl. I totally agree with the previous posts. Getting separated from him is a top priority. I agree that he's a leech who's feeding off you, and I'm very sorry if I'm being harsh. Are your parents okay with this? Do they care more about honor than you? I'm not thinking that your parents hate you, but if they're pushing this relationship even if they know what's going on, they're enablers. That's very unhealthy! Neither is it honorable. I think they already lost the honor of keeping their daughter safe if they know about how this relationship is. Sadly, only you will end this relationship. I recommend to get help wherever you can. If you're living on your own, this relationship will be much easier to break.
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My parents are actually unaware of this. They are looking for an arranged marriage - which I really cannot go through at least for now. If someone whom I knew as a friend before falling in love can put me through this, I can't really think of a marriage or relationship anymore as such.
It really is much difficult to get away from him. One thing is, when I do leave, he makes me feel so bad about myself for being unable to "commit to one person" so I end up taking back my decision. Another thing, we have no choice but meet regularly - there is no way out of that.