My house is usually trashed and I'm always in the middle of a construction project. I don't entertain at home. If I go to someone else's house and see that it is as messy as mine, I will let them come over, but otherwise I won't let them in-- especially if I know they are neat freaks! It even stresses me out when people want to pick me up at my house because I'm worried they'll want to use my bathroom.

So who else does this? And is there anyone who used to be this way that changed? This was how I grew up and I guess it has carried over.