I have been in a similar situation. I like a man that goes to my gym and he has played a games of liking me and then pushing me away. Now he has hired a woman that he is involved with. What makes it worse is my "friends" there seem to keep bringing up the same discussions about him and what is going on. Long story short I have realized that for me to feel better about myself I have to stay away from the people that make me feel bad, and those are the gossips and trouble makers at the gym that like to see people hurt.

I hope this helps you some how