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Originally Posted by CameraObscura
It seems like you might be selecting them on the basis of whether you could develop transference - attractive, female, near your own age - rather than on the basis of competence, skills, experience, or that interpersonal "click".
Maybe try a few sessions and see how it goes? Without the erotic kind of transference, you might go whole new places.
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You seem to try to set yourself up so transference will occur (which seems really odd). Maybe therapy where that doesn't become the focus might be more productive for you.