I'm not opposed to that - tonight is the night, in fact, I think I'm going to say "every other week". It is physically tiring just to run there every week, she is halfway across the Metro area in the next county, about 30 miles from home, luckily in a line with work so I am halfway there when I leave to go to her office.

I was raised that everything was black or white, and everything was a crisis. Things don't have to be either of those, there are a billion shades of gray, and not everything is "a big deal".

Yeah, you have been through the wringer. Take care of yourself, you hear?