I have never had the urge to tell a therapist any such thing. That I find them not unbearable is evidenced by the fact I continue to pay them each week.

With real people, I can, if needed, tell someone. I don't often see it as needed, but when I find it so, I can do it without much difficulty. I don't actually find it useful to have people telling me I mean something to them. I sort of assume most people can choose to stay away if they don't like me, and those who come around do.