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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet
We all say things we don't mean, so while it wasn't a very measured comment, it was understandable.
We should also bear in mind that we don't know the history of the relationship and things that have been done or said in the past, and so it's hard to judge just how disproportionate his comments might be  |
No that's just an excuse. I may say things that are not well thought out but in no way does that excuse me when I do these things. I would not judge anyone by any measure I would not judge myself. Just because we are fallible and make mistakes does not make the statement that I made valid. Again, there is a difference between stating that you are hurt by someone and jumping to statements like "scarring me for life"... That is exactly my point, the times when we say things we don't mean are times when we are out of control and not thinking. Just because we do that at times does not make it so we should not work on communicating better. The goal is not to do that especially to those you care about.