Good for you. I found I had some friends who were true friends and supported me even though I drank with them and others where that was all we had in common and they kept wanting to drag me back. I had to dump them. It is hard and it takes time.

Keep going to meetings and you will slowly make friends. The more you go and the more you share the easier it will be. I am a male but in my experience the woman will really reach out to you if you are female. Good job on the temp sponsor. Do what you have to do to stay away from that ex. Change your phone number and email if you have to.