I know AK has posted about this in the past, but I was reading a book last night called "Between and a client and a therapist" and it has a section on Kahut and described it so simply that even I could understand it LOL!

As I was reading it everything that happens for me in therapy was making sense and I could see how far I've come and how far I've yet to go. Its all so simple its silly if it weren't all so sad really.

Its a wonder mankind is as stable as it is really when you see just what goes into making a "self". Then again maybe mankind isn't really that stable?

Anyway its a pretty easy book to understand so I recommend it. Takes all the mystery out of transferrance and actually makes me feel glad that transferrace does occur and no longer will I feel ashamed of my "immature" needs in therapy now as they are there waiting to be met so that I may grow up into a fully mature adult.

Even Narcissim becomes something to be respected instead of shamed.