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empath301 · Jun 21, 2014, 10:26 AM

It is not really wierd per se. You are attracted to both genders sexually. It is important to realise that you are looking at pictures that make you masturbate. But that the pictures in Playboy magazines are not representative of female sexuality at all. Women want to be loved, treated as special and to be in a monogamous relationship with their guy. Their gratification for the most part is emotional unlike guys who experience the visual for sexual gratification. One does not have to be a hetrosexual to be able to be faithful to a woman sexually. But if you can't be faithful stay away from relationships of an intimate nature with them. I have had a couple of relationships with women and was very faithful to them. My bisexuality did not get in the way of being faithful to them and they knew I was bisexual. Women can't obviously satisfy sexual fantasies concerning other guys though. People for the most part don't choose their sexual orientation. I'm sorry your father can't accept you unconditionally. There are good and bad people in all sexual orientations.If you are thinking of having a sexual relationship with a guy, it is good to know that unlike women many guys are not sexually faithful. Some even fear monogamy. Thus, the reason why sexually active gay men are a high risk group for getting AIDS. Thus be wary of guys who are only looking for sex. Best to engage in communication to see if the other is safe irregardless as to the person's gender. If the person is impatient and does not want to communicate, it may just be a sign that you better stay away from them.But nothing really wierd about bisexuality. Many religious folks will disagree though as we both know from first hand experience.

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Originally Posted by newadult

Hey, this is my first post. I want to try to deal with an issue I've had since I was a teen. I always felt like I was heterosexual. As early as I can remember I had a crush on girls. But I also grew up in a very old fashioned religious family. I remember when I was about 6 or 7 my dad told me to never be gay. My parents always talked about gays and thought there was something wrong with them.

I started having gay fantasies when I was about 15. It's weird because I always masturbated to pictures of girls when I was 13 or 14. Then one day I remember coming home and going on the computer and looking at naked men.

I've had a couple girlfriends, but I feel like I need to work through this before I can have a meaningful relationship with a woman. It also keeps me from opening up to people in other areas of my life. I've always felt that something is wrong with me, because I know I'm ashamed of these fantasies. Sometimes I still have them.

Am I weird or is this more normal than I think...?