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Originally Posted by Rohag
 I have the impression your sister not only wants to control you (I suspect you'll never be 'good enough' for her) but feeds off your self-defense.
Have you tried not defending yourself -- taking the "Don't feed the Troll" approach?
Building a strong boundary between you and your sister may be a prerequisite for your own healing. |
I have tried EVERYTHING, I read articles on the internet about controlling people and nothing works because my mom defends her.
I guess as long as I live at home, I can't do anything.
I just feel like I'm slowly dying here...
I'm utterly shocked by how my family reacts towards me though I've done absolutely nothing. How can it be acceptable to let someone come home and criticize EVERYTHING and invade someones life like this...
It's beyond me.
Yes it's her home as well, but it's just not okay and I feel so helpless toward her because she's my sister and my mothers child...