I don't feel, anyone likes it, when plans are broken. It is disappointing. 1.5Hours away, is considerable enough of a distance, that broken plans do border on deal breaking. Shows a lack of effort.
And without knowing your past relationship stories, this could be red flag enough, for you personally, that it repeated a pattern from others in your life?

Perhaps not a catfish, but his following through on date plans, he blew it. Plans change once, not twice. ..

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