How and at what point do you tell someone you're dating about your SH?
Obviously not at the first appointment, but when? and how?

They are going to see it sooner or later. they will reject you for that. is there a way to make it easier? to help them accept it?

Its summer, its hot. excuses for wearing long sleeves wont last long.

what is the best way to go about it?

i honestly would not date someone who self harms. how can i expect someone to date me then? are self harmers meant to be alone? how can you have a relationship? or hope to have one?

keeping it secret and lying wont work forever. so how do you do it?

i will appreciate any input. thanks.