Trust me 70 hours is a lot!! But i only work part time and with the price of everything going up all the time it is crazy. He works all those hours so I can work part time. I guess if you add up all the work i do when I am "not working" we are about equal only I don't get paid for it!!! Gram passed away this morning.. Services are on Sat. I am scared to death to go. I have held it in all morning to be strong for the family and to be honest I feel nothing right now, is that wrong? I am just afraid that when it is all over I will completely lose it. I don't know which is scaring me the most losing it or not having any emotion at all. Am I even making sense or just rambling????? Thank you for being so kind.